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Self Help
Your Journey Begins






This self help page of Be Master of Your Life personal development course sets up a frame-work for your journey of self discovery.

Chop Wood, Carry Water :
Before enlightenment chop wood and carry water.
After enlightenment, chop wood and carry water.
- Wu Li.

Whilst I can't be with you in person, I will do my best to hold a mirror up to you.

It is the reflection of yourself which looks back at you from everything you see and do which will reveal you to yourself.

However, it is up to you and how honest you can be with yourself which will determine how much you get out of these articles.

I believe in pushing positives, so the first two sections of this site we'll look at what we have, our assets.

Our assets take us as far as we can go, only then do our liabilities hold us back.

Recognizing liabilities and solving our problems we can deal with later, after we have learnt some life skills and achieved some level of empowerment!

This is most important - first learn your life skills - then solve your problems.

So for now, it really has to be - self help. - as is life itself.

Yet Another of lifes universal truths is :

The only person who can help you is you.

When you go to the doctor for treatment, the treatment stimulates you body to heal itself. The doctor does not heal you - you do.

Thus if you want to become empowered to Be Master of Your Life, then it is up to you to learn the necessary skills.

I can teach and I can simplify, but you have to make the effort.

Your reward for this effort is you taking charge of your life, and more.

The 'and more' is where it gets really interesting. Whilst it will be different for each one of you, mastering the life skills of Be Master of Your Life will open doors and windows to the Universe which you never dreamed were there.

Major transformation of your life is the product of many small changes. This is the secret to self help - a little at a time.

If you skipped the introduction chapter, please click this link.



Now, to begin :

Let's find out what we are working with :- you.

  • You not only have a life - You are one of a kind!
  • There has never been anyone exactly like you!
  • You are special!
  • You have unique gifts and talents, (whether you know it or not).
  • Without you the world would not be the same!
  • We all need you!

We are discussing who you are, not what you are, or what you think, this is a huge distinction!

You are not your thoughts .... you are the space they occupy!

Self help note : By way of explanation, when a master meditates until there is nothing, no thoughts, no ego, just awareness, he or she is experiencing who he or she is. When there is nothing - there is potentially everthing!



The next two articles, (Your World and Meaning of Life), will help you paint a broad picture of yourself and your place in the world, whilst the article following those (Power Words) gives you a starting point toward becoming a more positive and efffective person.

I regard Power Words as probrably the most important article of the whole site.

The second section of the site, (Insight), deals with your self awareness, your place in the world and your connection to it. It provides simplified character concepts to put the various dimensions of your life into context.

By using these concepts you can build a framework on which to apply the Life Skills of Mind Power, Affirmations and E.F.T. which are the final three sections.

The Help section I have added by popular demand. In retrospect, it makes sense to recognise that negatives do happen, we are human after all!

Only by recognising and understanding these negatives can we deal with them.


Someone has said - "The trouble with life is that you may be half-way through it before you realize that it is a "do-it-yourself thing".



As you work through the examples, clarifications in your perceptions are going to change the picture (your self image), as you go. You are not only unique, you are also dynamic.

Learning about yourself is a process which will continue for the rest of your life!






Further Resources :-






Positive Thinking For You :

Improving Your Life Through Personal Development in Every Area. I hope that you will find the information I have to share personally helpful in many ways.



Help Yourself

When you have no where left to turn - Turn to self-help .Self-help-yourself is a no time wasting and straight to the point kind of site. You will not be bombarded with endless lists of facts, figures and statistics which usually are useless bits of information that simply do not help you achieve your objectives.



Help Collective

Help yourself at our self help website and help others too - read articles, tips and inspirational quotes... You see, we all know something about living a great life and we all could do with some help from time to time too - and that's where The Self Help Collective comes in.





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