Positive Words
The Foundation of Positive Thinking
Using Positive words is simply a matter of choosing the words, (all the words), you use with great care.
I am amazed at how few people seem to understand just how great a change they can make to their life simply by their choice of words.
In fact this may be the most important, life changing article of this resource!
Many people regard words as simply a way of making a noise with little thought as to the effect of the words they choose will have on their their life path.
From the word-patterns and word choices people use I can tell you all about their life.
Words are thoughts made into action!
If your eyes are the window to your soul, then the words you choose are the road map to where you are going.
Positive Words Lead The Way.
By choosing positive words to express yourself, you :
- Give each word its maximum impact
- Express clearly your desires
- Attract abundance
- Uplift your mood
- Attract positives
- Empower your life direction
The opposite of choosing your words with care is to waste one of your most valuable resources.
The operative term here is choosing to use positive words.
Swearing for the sake of it, verbal dihorrea, just simple yak, yak, yak - waste of resource, waste of power!
Each word you use has power.
In addition to its accepted definition, each word carries with it the power of a positive or negative connotation which is putting our wants and desires out to the universe.
Not only is the quality of the words we use important, so is the quantity!
The more words we use, the less is the power of each word. Use enough words - particularly just for the sake of it, then the power and impact of your words could be nil.
Your words do make a difference, both to your own reality and the reality of others.
If you are wasting this resource by not using positive words, then when it really matters - say in a prayer, affirmation or helping someone - then because you have devalued your words, they won't matter anymore, no one is going to listen to you sound off yet again, not even yourself!
Remember the old joke :-
Be careful what you ask for - you might get it!
Well, if you take this site seriously and take the lessons to heart - you will get what you ask for!
Positive words are that important.
The Rules
If you give your word - keep it!!!!! If you say you will do something (promise or not), then you have to do it!
The value and the power of your words depends on it , and thereby -
the power of your whole being depends upon it!
There is no - "I didn't really mean it"!
If you say it - you mean it!
Change your Life
When you have made a conscious decision to improve your life, you need a starting point.
Something which, no matter how minor, is going to change your direction.
That Change Is Your Words.
Any other change - attitude, point of view, belief, wants, desires are not going to stick unless you first change your word patterns to positive words.
Your words are a positive feedback loop!
This means that a conscious effort to change your word patterns to positive words is going to be reinforced by constantly hearing the positive words you use.
People who are positive and joyful inherently use different word structures to people who are negative and unhappy, even if the thoughts and ideas expressed may be the same!
And the reverse is true - people who start using optimistic and happy positive word structures are going to find themselves becoming happier and more joyful.
It is vital to cultivate an awareness of the type of words we use in all situations, in particular responses to other peoples negative images.
Be aware - be very aware of the three deadly C's ......
Never Ever :
Criticise,
Condem,
Or
Complain!
Always ask yourself the following questions after each encounter with someone:
- Were my word structures positive?
- Were my word structures expectant?
- Were my word structures caring?
- Did my word structures convey my true desires?
- Were my words reinforcing my awareness?
- Was I really saying what I meant?
- Was I really meaning what I said?
Our words are a double edged sword.
Not only are we expressing messages to someone else, we also receive the messages ourselves!
When you give out negatives to others, you give negatives to yourself!
Give Negatives - Get Negatives.
Give Positives - Get Positives.
Would you find listening to a recording to everything you had to say this day an uplifting experience?
Well, you are your own audience. So, treat yourself with a bit of respect!
Negatives
Negative forms of expression are the reverse of power words.
You can not make a positive out of a negative!
Putting a negation in front of a sentence does not work - either for your own mind or the universe at large. The message in these following sentences of denial is exactly the opposite of what is being expressed. It is the message which our subconscious minds (and the Universe at large) receives. Small children in particular hear (and act upon) the message rather than what is being expressed.
For example :-
- I don't want to catch a cold!
The message is - Catch a cold.
- Don't behave like that!
The message is - Behave like that.
- Don't touch that!
The message is - Touch that.
- I don't want any more problems!
The message is - More problems.
- Do not do that again!
The message is - Do that again.
In other words, the negations of don't, not or no, are simply ignored by the Universe, ourselves and others. Given that your success in life and what we receive is a result of what we put out there, our power words, it is little wonder that for many people life just does not seem to work the way they want it to.
By continually using negative forms of expression, people are reversing the Law of Attraction!
Avoid negative people
Of course in your dealings with others, you are going to find there are those who should be avoided, and that is simply a fact of becoming more aware.
If the people you associate with are not positive, encouraging, uplifting or helpful, it is time to review your list of acquaintances - seriously!
If somebody gives you a negative, it is important to reject or nullify the negative with power words. To agree, even for the sake of peace, is to accept the negatives as your own. Always counter a negative expression with a positive expression so that at worst you walk away without their negativity. Of course, you do need to find ways of expressing positives so that you are not regarded as some kind of nut. Usually you can get away with an explanation such as: “You know, I used to think just like that, but lately I have been focusing on the more positive aspects.............”
If you can be helpful or encouraging to others then your interaction is positive.
Sometimes, of course, somebody is determined you have to receive their serve of doom and gloom for the day and the only action you can take is to say “Not interested” and walk away.
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